You Have to Book an Appointment – Mzbel Sets Conditions for Intimacy

Ghanaian musician Mzbel has revealed that any partner who wants to have sex with her must inform her several days in advance because she does not like being approached unexpectedly for intimacy.

In an interview with ZionFelix, Mzbel shared her perspective on relationships, intimacy and the personal boundaries she expects her partners to respect.

According to Mzbel, she needs adequate notice to prepare herself mentally and physically before becoming intimate with a partner.

She explained that her partners cannot simply decide to have sex with her at the spur of the moment.

“I don’t really like sex. My sex is even boring. If I’m dating you and you want to have sex, you have to book an appointment with me.”

Mzbel said that a partner who intends to be intimate with her must communicate his plans in advance.

“You have to let me know that, let’s say, Friday, you want to have sex with me. You have to tell me.”

She explained that the advance notice gives her enough time to preselfto also determine whether she wants to proceed ahead with the encounter.

“I am not a machine; I have to know, I have to prepare myself. If you book an appointment before wanting to have sex, then I ask some questions. If I like the answers, then I agree to have sex.”

The musician further suggested that her arrangement has not been a major problem for the men she has dated because, according to her, they enjoy their intimate experiences with her.

She described her sexuality in unusually expressive terms, saying:

“My pussy is like a God space; it needs to be worshipped. If you can’t worship it, you can’t have it.”

Mzbel claimed that the men she has been involved with have generally been willing to respect her conditions because of the satisfaction they derive from being intimate with her.

“The men I have been with can comply because my vagina is very sweet.”

She also claimed that her former partners often want to return even after their relationships have ended.

“There is no one I have dated that, when we break up, they do not want to reconcile again. You will always want to come back.”

During the discussion, Mzbel also shared her broader perspective on romantic relationships, stating that she does not believe in love.

She described love as a scam, reinforcing her unconventional approach to relationships.

“I don’t believe in love; it’s a scam.”

Her comments come as part of her wider willingness to speak openly about relationships and her personal choices.

Mzbel was also asked about whether her requirement for partners to plan intimacy could encourage a partner to seek sex elsewhere.

The musician said she would not be concerned if a partner chose to cheat.

According to her, infidelity would not make her feel diminished, although she would rather not be told about it.

She made it clear that she does not want a cheating partner to involve her in the situation or bring information about the other person to her.

“You can cheat, cheat well.”

She added:

“I don’t care how many times you want to cheat because it won’t take anything away from me. I just don’t have to know.”

Mzbel further advised that the person a partner is cheating with should also not contact her or involve her in the affair.

“Or whoever you’re cheating on me with shouldn’t know me, so they don’t come and worry me.”